Kegel Exercises for Women: How to Do Them Correctly at Home

Many women leak a little when they cough, sneeze, laugh or jump, especially after childbirth or around menopause. It's common, but it isn't something you just have to live with. Kegels are often the first step.

What Is the Pelvic Floor?

The pelvic floor is a group of muscles stretched like a hammock across the base of your pelvis. It supports your bladder, bowel and uterus and helps control when you pass urine or wind. Pregnancy, childbirth, ageing, constipation and heavy lifting can weaken it.

Who Can Benefit From Kegel Exercises?

• Women who leak when coughing, sneezing, laughing or jumping
• Pregnant women and new mothers; see Zumba during pregnancy and Zumba after pregnancy
• Women in perimenopause or after menopause; see exercise for perimenopause weight gain
• Anyone who wants to keep these muscles strong

How to Find Your Pelvic Floor Muscles

An NHS bladder and bowel service gives this method (WWL NHS Foundation Trust):

• Step 1: Squeeze the muscles around your back passage, as if trying to stop passing wind.
• Step 2: At the same time, squeeze the muscles you would use to stop the flow of urine.
• Step 3: You should feel a gentle lift and squeeze inside. Your buttocks and thighs should stay relaxed.

You can do this sitting, standing or lying down. Lying down is easiest when you are learning.

How to Do Kegel Exercises: Step by Step

Slow Squeezes

Tighten your pelvic floor and hold for as long as you can, up to 10 seconds. Relax for 4 seconds. Repeat up to 10 times.

Fast Squeezes

Tighten for 1 second, then relax for 1 second. Aim for 10 repetitions.

How Often

Do one set of slow and one set of fast squeezes three times a day. Also squeeze before anything that puts pressure on your pelvic floor, such as coughing, sneezing or lifting.

Start with what you can manage, even a 3-second hold, and build up.

Common Mistakes to Avoid

• Squeezing your buttocks or thighs instead of the pelvic floor
• Holding your breath; keep breathing normally
• Stopping your urine flow on the toilet as practice, which NHS guidance says not to do
• Pushing down instead of lifting up
• Giving up too soon; it can take up to six months to see the full benefit

Tips to Make It a Habit

Link Kegels to things you already do every day:

• while waiting for the pressure cooker whistle
• at red lights or in a queue
• during TV ad breaks
• before getting out of bed in the morning

Kegels and Zumba

Leaking during jumps is a common reason women hold back in dance classes. While your pelvic floor gets stronger:

• choose low-impact versions of jumps, such as step-touches and heel digs
• empty your bladder before class
• squeeze your pelvic floor gently before a jump or a big step

If you also have abdominal separation after pregnancy, see Zumba with diastasis recti, and our guide to postpartum fitness at home.

When to See a Doctor or Physiotherapist

See a doctor, or a women's health physiotherapist, if:

• you can't feel the muscles working
• leaks don't improve after a few months of regular practice
• you feel a heaviness, dragging or bulge in your vagina
• you have pain during the exercises

Conclusion

Kegel exercises for women take only a few minutes a day. Find the right muscles, do slow and fast squeezes three times a day, avoid common mistakes, and give it a few months. If you're not seeing progress, get a physiotherapist's help.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Source: WWL Teaching Hospitals NHS Foundation Trust — Pelvic floor exercises for female patients